these past couple days have been amazing, emotionally speaking. a lot of closure and healing, and i didn’t even initiate it. these things came to me. i’ve been walking more than 10k steps every day, and that combined with what’s been going on has really put me into a nice natural high. remember to stay grateful, swim in gratitude. 

i’m about to go camping, too! <3

5 hours ago on 08/30/14 at 09:01am


Winterly Creek in Dusk, Ludwig Munthe. Norwegian (1841 - 1896)

1 day ago on 08/29/14 at 01:49pm
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You are not clingy, or needy, or silly for having needs for affection and affirmation and attention within a romantic relationship. Those needs aren’t an embarrassing outgrowth of your low-self esteem or depression or whatever messy emotional issues you may have going on, that’s just basic shit that people need from each other. We of course should not make our partners responsible for meeting all of our emotional needs – it’s not someone’s else’s job to make you happy. But inside a healthy relationship, being able to show affection, pay attention, and demonstrate “you are amazing and important to me” is a pleasure, not some task or burden.

Jennifer Peepas

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1 day ago on 08/29/14 at 08:39am
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happy cat


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dance party

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2 days ago on 08/28/14 at 10:48am
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I’m one of those people who can’t interact with people I find super fuckin duper physically attractive. It’s okay. One day I won’t be afraid.

UGHHHHH story of my life. WHY?? can we discuss this?? i’ve been doing a lot of thinking and i think it’s because i become hyper-aware of the fact that everything is a performance, i get SO self-conscious and am literally unable to be myself until i hate them. i’m able to get to a certain point with people i really like, but it’s not like i just go around fucking people, i go YEARS in between getting any physical love and “skin thirst” is a real thing; and i have so much, SO MUCH love to give that it pours out all over the first person who lets me, and it’s too much, too much, i constantly worry about drowning them and my constant worry destroys my personality

13,000 steps today :)

2 days ago on 08/27/14 at 10:38pm

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2 days ago on 08/27/14 at 10:29pm

I know it feels like you have all these options and when you make a decision, you lose a world of possibilities. But the reality is, until you make a decision, you have nothing at all.

Janet Finch

Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people.

Andre Dubus

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i hate when ppl make fun of me for trying 2 be positive and spread good vibes like fuck your bitter ass i spent a good portion of my short life being bitter and angry and suicidal if i wanna shoot sunshine out of my ass then i fuckin will 

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Wherever perfectionism is driving, shame is riding shotgun. Perfectionism is not about healthy striving, which you see all the time in successful leaders, it’s not about trying to set goals and being the best we can be, perfectionism is basically a cognitive behavioral process that says if I look perfect, work perfect, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid shame, ridicule, and criticism. It’s a defense mechanism.

"Why Doing Awesome Work Means Making Yourself Vulnerable"

"When I interview leaders, artists, coaches, or athletes who are very successful, they never talk about perfectionism as being a vehicle for success. What they talk about is that perfectionism is a huge trigger, one they have to be aware of all the time, because it gets in the way of getting work done."

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taken on the ride home

3 days ago on 08/26/14 at 08:16pm


Jules Gervais-Courtellemont - The arcades along the main street in Morella, Spain (1928).

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my favorite time of the day is when the leaves makes the shadows in my room move, the light looks so calm!! :——)

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